Blog on the Run: Reloaded

Sunday, June 19, 2016 5:18 pm

Father’s Day


It’s Father’s Day, and I’m kidless. Victoria has headed off to the Broyhill Leadership Conference, and Hooper is partaking of Coach K’s alleged knowledge at Duke’s Dook’s basketball camp. (Pound for pound, the best basketball coach in this state is Bob McKillop, but that’s a subject for another post.)

On the one hand, it’s kind of a bummer: This will be the first time we’ve missed our routine of their “taking me out” to lunch or dinner. (I use the scare quotes because I always pay.)

But on the other hand, I’m OK with it, because they’re spending time this week learning things, including how to operate respectably without Mom or Dad looking over their shoulders, how to get along with their peers, and how to behave toward nonparental authority figures. And isn’t that a big part of parenting? If you’re not teaching your kids how to go along and get along without you, you could end up with a Cheeto freak in your basement, and who wants that?

We’ll probably get together next weekend, when they’ll be around for a couple of days before Hooper sets off for 10 days of wilderness camping with his Scout troop and I take Victoria down to Chapel Hill for freshman orientation. In the meantime, I’m relaxing in the knowledge that they’re learning and growing, taking steps toward self-sufficiency and self-efficacy. And when we do go out, maybe this time I’ll make them pay.

 

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3 Comments »

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    Pingback by Father’s Day | Greensboro 101 — Sunday, June 19, 2016 6:06 pm @ 6:06 pm | Reply

  2. “Everyone is growing up too fast is making me sad. Time flies too fast, damn. Cherish every special moment.”

    Comment by Fred Gregory — Wednesday, June 22, 2016 7:07 pm @ 7:07 pm | Reply

  3. You know I will.

    Comment by Lex — Wednesday, June 22, 2016 7:58 pm @ 7:58 pm | Reply


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